Now as you hv probably already figured out from the huge purple heading and impossible to miss picture above i am going to be shedding some light on friendship today or depending on the time difference thingy tonight.
ya,so friendship!!!!!! Every body has different definitions on what friendship is and what it entails,and i figure that even if this is my blog it would be rather unfair for me to giv just my definition as to what friendship is.So im gonna head to my trustee word pshycic "the dictionary"(nd yes the dictionary is my pshycic cos im a genius like that.lol),then il also refer to a writer like myself(in my mind) and a poet(which i can only dream of becoming cos its rather difficult)then il share what i think ,so stay tuned,dont touch that dial,dont move that mouse and dont you dare off that screen(im well aware that the last expression is incorrect 4 all those who just jumped to the far conclusion that i cant speak english...kmt... doubt much)
The definition taken from the dictionary refers to friendship as
The state of being friends; friendly relation, or attachment, to a person or between persons; affection arising from mutual esteem and goodwill; friendliness; amity; good will……..
Those kind of definitions are always interesting,full of shit atimes but still interesting!!!!!
so if you scroll up to the first picture theres a definition from a writer who i believe is Sheryl Condie that says ":A friend is someone you can be alone with and have nothing to do and not be able to think of anything to say and be comfortable in the silence. "
Thats just a quote and i dont think i need to explain that cos its sorta self explanatory(i wud luv 2bliv my readers are smart,or atleast i hope so.) so nw wer gna look at a poem nd then il giv yu my personal opinion and views on friendship,.the poem by Heather Stoop describes friendship in a mre personal sense,if you dont understand poetry i apologise because you will just be lost..lol.....
| Because existence can become severe in one day, just sense me and I'll be there. In the minds eye, I'm not so far away. If you hold out your hand, in the whispers, I'll become the zephyr. and besiege you. If your eye's upon the stars, in the crystalline darkness, I'll become the moon. And the light shall guide you. If you rest upon the ground, in the warmth, I'll become the grass. And embrace you. If you turn outside, in the wetness, I'll become the rain. An upon your forehead, kiss you. If you free the air, in the light of day, I'll become the sun. And smile for you. Between the miles- if you need me. If you need a friend. Let me be the friend, I want to be. |
Because existence can become severe
in one day,
just sense me and I'll be there.
In the minds eye,
I'm not so far away.
If you hold out your hand,
in the whispers,
I'll become the zephyr.
and besiege you.
If your eye's upon the stars,
in the crystalline darkness,
I'll become the moon.
And the light shall guide you.
If you rest upon the ground,
in the warmth,
I'll become the grass.
And embrace you.
If you turn outside,
in the wetness,
I'll become the rain.
An upon your forehead, kiss you.
If you free the air,
in the light of day,
I'll become the sun.
And smile for you.
Between the miles-
if you need me.
If you need a friend.
Let me be the friend, I want to be.
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So nw its time for me to close the show(yu kno as a boss naww.lol),i believe friendship is very important in every sense
Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate,partner or husband(pick the one you like). But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.
In recent times friendship has taken up so many different forms and the word is so easilly misused nowadays but the truth is you shudnt be pulling along deadweight and calling them your friends,i believe friends should add to your life and not take away from it.....so if your pulling along someone who is not adding to your life cut that person off imediately before they suck nemre out of you because no matter hwmuch you deceive urself that they are just there and r not adding or taking away they must be doing one so if they arent adding then they must simply be taking away from your life....SO CUT THEM OFF NOW,theres always the fear of been alone but then theres also the fear that you cant trust anyone because all your friends arent really your friends....
If FRIENDS REFLECT THE CHOICES WE MAKE IN LIFE,THEN WHAT DOES YOU PULLING ALONG DEADWEIGHT AS FRIENDS SAY ABOUT YOUR LIFE CHOICES.....THINK BOUT THAT!!!!!
Friendship is similar to a plant of slow growth and must withstand joy and most importantly adversity before it can trully be called FRIENDSHIP!!!!!
DONT JUST GIVE OUT YOUR FRIENDSHIP TO ANYONE!!!!!!
NOT EVERYONE DESERVES IT OR WILL EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT......
I reli dont know how this post is gonna look cos im truly typing from the heart no mind involved,...
so dnt judge me (i neva reach WOLE SOYINKA levels).......
THINK ABOUT ALL IV SAID AND MAKE A DECISION ON THE KIND OF PEOPLE YOU WANT TO EITHER HAVE AS FRIEND'S OR NOT HAVE!!!!!
Why you ask????
wel its simple
BECAUSE JOE SAYS SO!!!!
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