LOVE!!!! LOSS OF VIRTUALLY EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Over the past couple of days i have come to realize something pretty interesting,a bit funny in a sense but still pretty interesting and you(YES YOU) are one of the first people i am going to share this realization with........
So you should be jumping for joy now....k atleast if you dont jump show a little emotion,,,,,,yur still not showing any emotion..i just asked for a little(tiny,small),what kind of reader are you sef...i spend all my time typing and you cant even show any emotion.....yu people are just WICKED.kmt..

K on to the realization,im gonna type a list beneath this and il explain further as i go on so just chill!!!!
1.loss of control
2.loss of freewill
3.loss of common sense
4.loss of funds/money/ego/owo(i wnt explain this one,you are well aware of it and how it happens)
5.loss of freedom
6.loss of life
7.loss of friends
8.loss of family
9.loss of personality

Love first of all to different people means different things,for some its that feeling they get when they come in contact with chocolate cake or sum oda kind of food,for others its that thing they feel for this person they bliv is the one and for a few(but constantly growing number) it is a myth that is TOTALLY FULL OF SHIT!!!

The dictionary's,say luv is one thing,poets say its another and individuals say its so many different things.....
so i guess most people can agree to disagree on love but one thing we can all agree about is that it takes alot from you..........its kinda double edged cos it also gives yu alot but im gonna focus on the losses!!!!!!

So im just gonna follow the list above.
1.Loss of control/3.Common sense:Loss of control and common sense are similar in the sense that people who are in love or atleast believe they are in love tend to do really stupid and impulsive thing,they actually take the concept of "babe ill do anything for you" to the very extreme...i mean why will you go and rent your house out to pay for her to go to university,so that when she gets there both of you will now be squatting in her small university accomodation.because of love...MADNESS!!!!

2.Loss of freewill/7.loss of freedom: When in love or in the illusion there in your mind technically isnt yours anymore it belongs to the person your in love with and vice versa(nt in all cases tho but in most),you can keep deceiving yurself that you know what your doing nd no body makes decisions for you and tells you what to do but truth be told YOU ARE A LIAR.I mean it pretty much becomes second nature that when you wanna make a decision regarding your life like what university to go to,the things that you should be thinking bout like how good the university is and how widely acknowledged become third and second nature because the first thing on your mind is "well is it near my boyfriend/girlfriends university or as a matter of fact let me just go to the university he/she is in it'l be cool"....Therefore as a result of well Love you become a BONAFIED MUMU!!!!

Since i care about my readers and i dont want you guys to fall asleep reading this im gonna group a few together and talk about them jointly to spare you anymore reading time than necessary...

Loss of friends,Loss of family and Loss of personality:Love as wonderful as it is can still be a pain in the........(yu people did english in secondary school shey-so feel in the gap)
You spend somuch time with your lover that you discard your friends and even your family,sometimes your so hell bent on pleasing your lover that you even discard yurself and loose your own personality.It could be that way you loose friends,family and it could also be where your friends and your family think your lover is a complete asshole and the wrongest possible match for you and well ofcourse because your either so enlightened by love or blinded by it you choose to ignore them and stay away from them because they disagree with your choice in a lover(lover jus sounds so wrng...dats y im using it btw)......newsflash your either really wise or EXTREMELY STUPID!!!!

As for loss of life well we all know that some really disturbed people commit suicide because of love well except Nigerians tho we in Naij hv come to the conclusion that if Jesus died on the cross for our sins why the hell should we die for you and that also applies to jumping infront of bullets so if yur lover tld yu he wud jump infrnt of a bullet for you and his name is sumin like"Ade,obi,effiong" the truth is simple. HE IS A LIAR!!!

Seems like people never want you to express how you feel about love sometimes,i mean wen yur a kid or a teenager and you talk about love sum1 says"shutup what do you know about love at this your age" ok no wahala.
when your in your 30's and 40's and you try to express how you feel about love your friends say"why are you talking like a child" imagine
the worst is nw wen yu r 80-90 around that point wer you will soon die and you try to express your feelings about love some one says"you are to old to be talking like this"
IF IT IS ME ENH,I WILL PROVOKE!!!

Regardless of all that i believe love is a gift from God,if your lucky enough to find it,DONT LET IT GO!!!!
WHY????
BECAUSE JOE SAYS SO!!!!!!!

X=Giving into. Y=Insecurity....(X+Y=LIMITATION)

Okay,hey people,if your a frequent member of the people that view my blog group even if that group doesnt exist thank you,and if your a new comer please stand,the usher's will come around to make you feel welcome.........(but ya yu get ,thanks for reading).....
some people were asking me to shout out to them on my blog and to be honest i was quite astonished,Nigerian's r reli sumting,because last i checked shout out's r wen sum1 WANT'S to acknowledge you nt wen YOU BEG THEM to call yur name on tv or post your name on their blog.anh.
Nehws this is me (JOE) nt SHOUTING OUT to anyone because IT IS NOT BY FORCE(PERIOD!!!!!)
Alright on to business,2dai im gonna talk or rather type about INSECURITY and  limitation............
According to the dictionary insecurity is a feeling of apprehensiveness and uncertainty : lack of assurance or stability......i just tend to call it a limitation because reli all it does is make you doubt yourself and ocassionaly you end up doing stupid things to make up for whatever you think your insecurity is......for instance a teenage girl who thinks her body is shaped oddly and her face resembles a caricature of joker in batman when honestly she's an ok looking girl tends to go out of her way to impress guy's and 90% of the time ends up been very loose.....that's if she socialises because if she doesnt well she prbably spend's most of her time infront of the mirror crying or asking God why.lol.(jus saying) ......And with all this it is evident that this babe has LIMITED herself to MEDIOCRITY.All because of silly insecurities you end up living a miserable life......
Looks by the way is not the only kind of insecurity....it maybe monetary insecurity(i.e yur cash flow may nt be the same as yur guy's),insecurity in the form of social standing or as is popularly called-REP(i.e your nt as popular as that your x-gurlfrend/boyfrends new guy/babe,he can get in2 rehab but wen yu tried they gated you till the next morning.lol.so in yur mind yu hv failed)....MSCHEWW!!!!
Btw i expantiated on the looks bit because i believe it's the most common insecurity,wen it comes to insecurity sum people r just hopeless,sum even hv combinations of insecurity(asif 1 is nt enuf.anh... jure oh!!!!).
Nw here's what you do,if you believe you have an insecurity or insecurities,lik wizkid sed 'no need for long thing' just GET OVER IT.....i kno reading this if you hv an insecurity, in yur mind yul proli be like see this idiot,bcos it is easy 2 get over it shey......nd yur right it isnt easy but its sumting yu hv to do cos if yu dnt LIMIT it or obliterate it completely well its gonna LIMIT you and possibly obliterate YOU completely.....

Note-Babes-Guys lik fine face and sxc body but they r also in2 confidence ,so if yu dnt hv sxc face nd fine body you had better work on your confidence or you will be alone for the rest of your life(jus saying)lol.....
And if different people r giving you similar compliment's and your convincing yurself that all of them are lieying because of yur insecurities(reli?????all of them are lieying???????do you reli bliv that??????if you do,wel your the liar and an even worse one because your lieying to yurself)..........................

I wud give more advice on how to handle insecurity but i dont want yall to handle it,i want you to get RID OF IT!!!!
Iv had my fair share of insecurities and from that experience i can tell you for a fact that
X=Giving into. Y=Insecurity....(X+Y=LIMITATION).....

DONT LET YOURSELF BE LIMITED!!!!!!!
According to the dictionary limitation is

1. The act of limiting or the state of being limited.

2. A restriction.

3. A shortcoming or defect..

 

And according to me LIMITATION IS SHIT!!!!!!

 

YOU DONT WANT TO BE LIMITED

 

DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!!

 

 

 

Thank you people for the constructive criticism and the compliment's,very much appreciated!!!!!

THANK GOD!!!!

 

AND NO I AM STILL NOT GOING TO READ OVER THIS!!!

Sorry for any error there maybe!!

Quiting's Preti Easy!!!(Yu shud NOT try it sumtime)

K so here i am again on blogger.com on my blog account posting a new entry for my blog wall.WOW.
That's actuli quite a statement because to be honest i did not expect to be making an addition 2 my blog 4 a while, k wel hell i dint expect to make an entry ever again.I got quite a few critics after the first post on thought's and word's.......some gud,some bad,some wit gud intent and sum just simply horrid and wicked.....(btw all those wit the horrid nd wicked critics-YUR FATHER!!!!!lol....
k bak 2 business,with all the critic's last nite i just convinced myself that well this wasnt me.....so i just kept saying quitely to myself 'blogging just isn't your thing' and hell!!! i started believing it(yu see quiting is preti easy...wel except yur a smoker,then yur in deep shit, yul proli end up chewing nicotin gum 4 d rest of yur life.lol.#just sayin).....
I was catching up with an old family friend(harira) and i dnt mean she's old tho,she's older than me ya but not old old.but yu get the point tho!! She says i like your blog ,you should post something else and after i made all the excuses i know,she say's ' JUST DO IT,THERES NO HARM POSTING' and hence this post was born.lol.
Thing is every one goe's thru that stage wer you just wanna 'hang up your boots',- 'drop your pen',-pour your water(for lack of better examples.lol.),or like me quit your blog but im just saying hold on,re-asses your stance on whatever it is and ask yourself these questions.....- does going on with this thing(whatever it is) does it take somuch from you(does it push you to bring out your best,a.k.a yur A game)...thats the first question.....
SECOND ONE is -if i dont quit will the end result of whatever it is im going for make me happy?
LAST ONE is-excuses aside can i do this???

IF ALL THE ANSWERS ARE YES,THEN Y THE HELL WUD YU WANNA QUIT!!!!!!

QUITING IS LIKE A DRUG,DO IT OFTEN AND YOU GET ADDICTED!!!!!!!

DONT GET ADDICTED!!!!!

Quiting's Preti Easy!!!(Yu shud NOT try it sumtime).....

THANKS HARIRA(this is dedicated to you)......
i kno dedication is usually in the beggining,but enh-no vex.lol

Once again im reli not gonna read thru this!!!!(it takes to long and it reminds me of comprehension in secondary skul)
so once again if der r mistakes...i apologise!!!!!

Thoughts and word's should become ACTIONS!!!!!!!!(WHEN reasonable)

Ok,well to be completely honest im really not so sure i can actually maintain a blog,not sure people are going to want to read,not sure im going to want to post anything else.
But.............it get's to a point were you'v just got 2 say "wat the hell" like i have...because if you pay more attention to the reason's why you shouldn't do something rather than the reason's why you should, chances are you'l probably not end up doing that thing.So this is me taking a leap,posting something on my blog!!!!!!!!
K well for some reason people tend to think alot,talk even more and almost never end up doing anything about what they are talking and/or thinking about.....i guess you can also call that 'thought's,word's and NO ACTION' most of the time you can attribute that to thing's like cowardice,low self esteem and other similar ish.Truth is you can't always do what your thinking,like im not saying that because ocassionally you think about kicking your bosses ass cause he/she is quite an asshole that you should go ahead and do it.....If you do you'l proli be out of a job or facing charges for assault....so it's quite advisable that you well.....keep those thought's stored deep down inside that mind of yours.......which is why it absolutely pisse's me off when a particular talk show called 'moment's with mo' comes on because the catch phrase is 'if you can think it,you can do it' i mean what kind of illiterate statement is that......I mean i can think of somuch that i know i cant possibly do and im sure she can to......but yet when she goe's -if you can think it-the audience respond-you can do it---......
My example is actuallhy with this blog,because people kept telling me,start a blog and i just kept on bringing excuses like-i can't punctuate(you must hv alredi figurd that out by now.lol),im not that good a writer and other similar shit..........
KICK THE EXCUSE'S TO THE CURVE,COS YOUR ALWAYS GONNA BE ABLE TO MAKE UP A NEW 1,IF YOU KEEP LIVING YOUR LIFE BY EXCUSES........

YOUR THOUGHT'S AND YOUR WORD'S ARE BEGGING TO BECOME ACTION'S--------OBLIGE THEM(WHEN REASONABLE)



Im nt gonna read over this,but if there are mistakes,forgive me....I mean it is  my first post(YOU SEE THATS AN EXCUSE,IM JUST LAZY ND TIRED)))lol......